What should I talk to a girl in chat?

20 Interesting Things to Talk About With a GirlThe Food/Drinks. Its obvious, really. Music. Whats also probably there and should work as its own cue is music. Television. You dont want to look like an expert, though. Movies. Work. Hobbies. Pets and Animals. Travel.More items •26 Apr 2021

What do you say in a first message online dating?

I would recommend starting out with a simple greeting telling the person hello, ask them how they are, and/or tell them your name. You may also want to say something that you found interesting about their profile. For example: “Hi there, my name is Tori and I see that we have the same taste in music!”