Try something along the lines of: “Ive been having a lot of fun and Im just wondering what youre looking for out of this.” Let her know that you dont need an answer immediately, but that youd like to talk about it before this goes too far.

How do I make myself clear after I want to hook up?

To make clear that you only want to hook up, it can be helpful to avoid behaving as you would in a relationship. If you want someone to know youre only into hooking up, treat them collegially and respectfully, like a peer or a pal, Writer and Relationship Expert Kiki OKeeffe tells Elite Daily.

How can I be more than just a hookup?

How to Make Him Want You for More Than a HookupBe clear about what youre looking for from the start. Find out what he wants in a natural way. Dont pretend to be casual just because he is. Dont sleep with him on the first date. Dont answer booty calls early in the relationship. Dont contradict your hookup status.More items •28 Apr 2019