RULES ABOUT THE FOUR DATE RULE: Each date should be at least an hour long but no more than three hours long. SWITCH UP THE SETTING. Ideally, the dates will take place in different places – the park, an outdoor restaurant, his apartment (ONLY if its the fourth date). DRINK ON ZOOM.

What should I expect on 4th date?

8 Things to Be Ready for on the Fourth DateA fun date! Feeling comfortable around each other. Being open.Defining what you guys are. Asking and fielding deeper questions. Mentioning exes. Figuring out each others lifestyles. If you havent done it yet, chances are one of your is thinking about it.23 Aug 2018

Is 4 dates too soon to be exclusive?

You might want to be exclusive after four dates, or you might feel comfortable waiting until date ten before making that switch. If, after four or five dates, you would feel upset or hurt by them going on a date with someone else, its time to have the talk.