You may be worried that youre being held down by the arbitrary three-day rule, but fortunately, it may turn out youre doing more worrying than necessary. According to experts, the best rule of thumb is that you should text someone within 24 hours after a first date.

How often should we text after first date?

Instead, send texts full of New Fun Plans. Even if you initiated the first date, dont be afraid to do so again. Aim for at least three days between dates.

Why is he not texting as much after first date?

Believe it or not, but a lot of people are just shy, and they are afraid of being rejected. Your date might have gotten the impression that you dont like them. If they assume you arent interested, they wont text you to set up a second date. Ultimately, you might have to reach out if you want to see them again.