Sober.ly. Sober.ly is an up-and-coming social network and dating site that likes to think of itself as a complement to traditional recovery programs. Here, you can make friends, find dates, get support, and just have fun with people who get you.

Is there a dating website for people in recovery?

If youre looking for love stat, look no further than Love in Recovery. The site, similar to Match.com or an E-Harmony (but no alc-y), offers singles a place to find the friendship, support, love, and hope that theyre looking for in a ship.

Can you date while in recovery?

Early in recovery, relationships are one of the leading causes of relapse. Although the Big Book of AA doesnt offer guidelines on dating in recovery, addiction counselors strongly advise waiting until a person has achieved one year of sobriety.

Where can I meet girls if I dont drink?

You can meet women who feel the same way. Church, health and fitness classes, or whatever common interests or value systems you might share with people who also dont drink or who dont drink much, are all great places to meet women.

Is there a dating app for alcoholics?

Loosid. Whether youre newly sober-curious or have abstained from alcohol for years, this free app welcomes anyone whos on the wagon, regardless of the reason why they gave up drinking. After setting up your profile and uploading your photos on Loosid, you can swipe through potential dates in your area.

Why do I keep attracting alcoholics?

If you are a woman who grew up with an alcoholic father you may tend to be attracted to men who are alcoholics because you find their behaviour familiar. Even when someones behaviour or personality is hurtful, on a subconscious level, some part of us may find comfort in the familiarity of that behaviour.

Can you date in AA?

The official policy of Alcoholics Anonymous (as laid out in the Big Book) does not specifically close the door to dating in the early period of sobriety, but abstaining from relationships is an integral part of the conversation.

How do I meet new people if I dont drink?

Bars and online dating are not your only two options. I know this is crazy, but you could even try to meet a guy during the daytime: Ask your friends to hook you up with someone nice. Find a hobby shared by cute guys and take a class. Walk up to a guy in a café and ask him what hes reading.

Should I tell my date I dont drink?

The best time to tell your romantic interest that you dont drink is as soon as the conversation comes up naturally, Rodden tells Elite Daily. Ultimately, Rodden agrees that being upfront early on can help you weed out suitors who arent supportive.

Why do I attract damaged guys?

1. Low self-esteem. In my opinion, people with low self-esteem, who dont think they can attract someone better than a person exhibiting these bad behaviors tend to go after damaged men (or women.)

Why do I attract narcissists?

If your self-esteem has been damaged—whether due to your upbringing, previous relationships or other events which have happened to you—you may well be attracted to a narcissist who continues to put down your opinions and engages in other behaviours which signify to you that youre not good enough just as you are.

What if you see someone you know at AA?

What happens if I meet people I know? They will be there for the same reason you are. AA does not disclose your identity even to outsiders or even others inside our fellowship. You retain as much anonymity as you wish.

What do you do at a bar if you dont drink?

Non-alcoholic drink choicesClub soda with a splash of cranberry juice (very little sugar, easy to drink)Club soda + lime.Club soda + Blackcurrant.Club soda + bitters and lime.Virgin Caesars [Bloody Mary] (I order them spicy)Kombucha (if they have it on tap)Spirit-free cocktails.Iced tea.More items •9 Jun 2019

How do you tell a date you dont drink?

Below, sober dating tips for dating without drinking:Own your choice. Have a go-to drink order ready. Dont go to a bar in the first place. Have your why I dont drink elevator pitch ready to go. Understand that she might not be comfortable with your choice.28 Feb 2018