To get married in the Amish community, members must be baptized in the church. Outsiders, non-Amish, or English, as they call the rest of the world, are not permitted to marry within the Amish community.

Can a non Amish person become Amish?

You can begin wherever you are.” Yes, it is possible for outsiders, through conversion and convincement, to join the Amish community, but we must quickly add that it seldom happens. And to truly be a part of the Amish community one would need to learn the Pennsylvania Dutch dialect.”