How do you deal with hot and cold people?

When a person blows hot and cold, they often want you to react and give them the attention they crave. When this happens, you should stand your ground – ignore them, be yourself, be independent and show them you are not affected by their behaviour.

What does it mean when a man blows hot and cold?

The man being hot and cold could be a game that he is playing to have control over the situation. To feel like he has the power, which ultimately makes him feel safe and secure. (Keep in mind, this is not healthy behavior). He may be blowing hot and cold because he is distracted.