Oftentimes, the “what are we” talk comes from a discrepancy in the relationship, leading to one person wanting clarity. Be direct and simply say, “Im having a really great time with you, and Im interested in ….” Then, ask the other person if they feel the same way. Dont leave any room for confusion.

When to ask if we are dating?

According to a relationship expert, its socially acceptable to broach the subject after two months. But some people will get to the stage earlier — it all depends how much time youre spending together, and how much of a good fit you are. If youre not sure, try introducing them to your friends and see how they react.

How do I know if were officially dating?

So are we dating? 10 signs its time to define your relationshipYou confide in them about everything. You expect to see each other on the weekends. You know all of their mates. You think about them ALL THE TIME. You two talk about going away together. Youre not interested in having sex with anyone else.More items

How do you ask a girl if were dating?

Start the conversation with normal small talk about her day or how shes doing, but then ask how her relationship is going. Relationships are a normal subject of conversation, so she shouldnt be too suspicious if you keep it light and friendly. Use this talk about relationships to bridge towards asking her out.