Why do so many people divorce at 40?

Expectations Change And its quite probable that your expectations of your spouse arent the same. A common cause of divorce amongst people in their 40s is that what they want out of life, and what they want out of their spouse, has changed. But, their spouse hasnt changed. And now, they want to move on.

What is the most common reason given for divorce?

The most commonly reported major contributors to divorce were lack of commitment, infidelity, and conflict/arguing. The most common “final straw” reasons were infidelity, domestic violence, and substance use. More participants blamed their partners than blamed themselves for the divorce.

Why do middle aged couples divorce?

Midlife divorce happens more often simply because we are living longer. We are healthier longer. Also, some women are more financially able to be comfortable after divorce and so they are less likely to settle for a marriage that is not as good as they want.