One of the reasons people may not disclose more about themselves is for fear of being judged. The threat of negative evaluation from others–such as being negatively perceived by your date–is the root of social anxiety, and is exacerbated in a dating setting.

Can you cure anxious attachment?

While you cant change the attachment style you developed as a child, you can learn to overcome it and to work to feel more secure in yourself and your relationships. In fact, people with anxious attachment tend to respond better to treatment than those with avoidant attachment styles.