What is girl code? “Girl code is the rules of being a woman, especially with regards to dating,” says Ellen Scott. Its stuff like: you cant date your friends ex, you also cant date your exs friend. Its basically just that your loyalty is always with other women – thats what girl code is supposed to be.”

What happens if u break girl code?

Breaking girl code comes with the very real possibility that you may lose a friend — or even a whole group of friends — and thats something you need to be prepared for. “You have to look at both sides of the issue,” Brooke said. “You have to be willing to lose that friendship.