You should text him first if, youre reaching out to him to genuinely connect and communicate with him. If for any reason youre texting him based on worry, fear or anxiety. Such as, trying to “keep his interest” or manipulating him to do something for you.

Should the guy be texting first?

How Often Should You Initiate Texting With A Guy? A guy doesnt have to text first every time. You can also initiate a text with him, once for every 3 or so first messages that he sends you. Its also ok to initiate less often and more on the side of every 3-5 messages.

Should I text first or wait?

And the reason why youre texting him in the first place. You should text him first if, youre reaching out to him to genuinely connect and communicate with him. If for any reason youre texting him based on worry, fear or anxiety. Such as, trying to “keep his interest” or manipulating him to do something for you.