Although seeing them once a week is fine, if you want to see them more by month four you can scale it up to twice depending on your schedule. For people who have been dating 12 months or more how often you see each other all comes down to your lifestyle, schedules and what you both want.

How do you deal with not seeing your boyfriend often?

The best way to cope with separation and keep your relationship strong is to communicate with each other about your feelings. When you talk, tell your significant other that you miss them. Ask about what your significant other is doing and tell your significant other about your day to feel more connected.