Although a new love might physically replace the previous one, from a psychological viewpoint, the widow will now love two people at the same time. Her love expresses the nonexclusive nature of love more than it does its replaceable nature. Thus, one widow writes: Second love is different, but its very good.

Can you find love after death of spouse?

People sometimes struggle to find love after their spouse dies because they feel guilt or shame. Devine, a grief expert, gently reminds us that finding love again is part of the healing process.

How long after spouse dies remarry?

Although three years is the ideal waiting time with regards to widow/widower remarrying etiquette, every individual is different and should remarry if and when they decide to do so.