BPD splitting destroys relationships by causing the person to distort how they see themselves and others. BPD relationships shift between highs and lows. BPD splitting destroy relationships in the way that the person defends against bad feelings within themselves so that they can feel good about themselves.

Why do borderlines ruin relationships?

No matter why a person with BPD lies, whether its because they truly think their skewed worldview is correct or if they are feeling ashamed, the impact on relationships can be extremely detrimental. Friends and family members may no longer trust the person with BPD, which serves to isolate them from their loved ones.

How does borderline personality affect relationships?

People with borderline personality disorder (BPD) tend to have major difficulties with relationships, especially with those closest to them. Their wild mood swings, angry outbursts, chronic abandonment fears, and impulsive and irrational behaviors can leave loved ones feeling helpless, abused, and off balance.

How do I stop BPD from ruining my relationship?

Finding Relief if Youre Facing Relationship Problems Due to Borderline Personality DisorderSeek out information. Get help. Practice healthy communication. Ask open-ended questions. Talk only when your partner is calm. Offer support. Avoid labeling or blaming. Take threats seriously.More items •Oct 15, 2018