The term stems from restaurant dining etiquette in the Western world, where each person pays for their meal. It is also called Dutch date, Dutch treat (the oldest form, a pejorative), and doing Dutch.

What is it called when you pay for yourself on a date?

Youre out on a first date and the check arrives. The term going dutch refers to the practice of each person paying his or her own way when dating. So, instead of your date picking up the tab, you pay for your own share.

Why is it called go Dutch?

The origin of the phrase “to go Dutch” is traced back to the 17th century when England and the Netherlands fought constantly over trade routes and political boundaries. To “go Dutch” implies an informal agreement that each person will pay his or her own expenses during a date.

What is going Dutch slang?

to “go Dutch” or to have a “Dutch treat” is to eat out with each person paying for their own bill, possibly from a stereotype of Dutch frugality.

What is a Dutch treat breakfast?

noun. informal an entertainment, meal, etc, where each person pays for himself.

How do you tell someone to pay for their own meal?

Honesty is the best policy. Explain that you really want to come to the dinner, but youre on a budget and youd prefer if everyone could pay her own way at the restaurant. It can be uncomfortable to bring up money issues with your peers. However, your true friends will be understanding of your budget.