Something as simple as a special smile, casting a longing look, or engaging in witty banter may be all it takes for him to start flirting back. New clothes or a new hairstyle may also help the widower take notice.

How do you attract a widow?

Be curious. One of the best gifts you can give a widow or widower is to ask questions about their loved one, and to listen to their stories about him or her. Be gentle. Losing a partner is traumatic. Be supportive. The wounds of loss do not heal overnight. Be understanding. Be grateful. Be confident.May 28, 2019

How do you talk to a widow?

Below are some suggestions to be able to effectively talk with the widower about problems that may be hindering your relationship.Pick the Right Time. When Talking About the Late Wife, Dont Act Jealous. Know What Problems You Need to Solve on Your Own. Solve One Issue at a Time.