When dating, many people notice they tend to be attracted to the same “type.” There are physical types, sure ― tall, dark and bearded, for instance ― but also personality types. Maybe youre drawn to the quiet, mysterious type. Or the vivacious, extroverted type that somehow manages to get you out on a Friday night.

What does type mean in dating?

People do tend to have types, especially if they live in homogenous communities, New York–based relationship expert and author April Masini tells Bustle. She defines type as the pattern youve typically followed in your dating history. Your type is the similar pattern in your dating behavior, she says.

What is someones type?

To have the personality and/or physical appearance that one is typically attracted to. Often used in the negative to mean the opposite. Im not surprised shes flirting with John—hes definitely her type.

Is having a type weird?

While its totally normal to have a type, whatever it may be, you still need to know if there is a certain characteristic youre attracted to that isnt as healthy as it should be.

When a girl asks you what is your type?

As a general rule, if the girl asks you about what type of girls you like, she likes you. When a girl likes a guy, she wants to know what her chances are and how she stacks up against other girls.