How do you know if a guy really likes you or is just using you over text?

He Asks Questions If a man likes you, hes going to ask you about yourself – some subtle, some not so much. Also, it provides him with an excuse to keep talking to you. If he seems extremely inquisitive and curious when hes texting you, its a sign he is developing feelings for you.

How do you know if he is just being nice?

If hes just nice, he might listen to you, but his eyes will probably be elsewhere. Instead, hell look you in the eyes while youre talking, showing interest and understanding. Hell smile, laugh, and make sure you are comfortable. His eye contact will put you at ease and may even make you feel important to him.

Are you trying to get in my pants?

vulgar slang To have sex with one. (Usually said of the intention or expectation.)