The Awkward Stage While some chance encounters result in instant chemistry, theres typically an initial awkwardness to slough off before the first date—and even during it. Testing the tepid waters of do they like me, do they like me not can be the toughest part.

Are relationships always awkward at first?

“Relationships tend to be awkward in the beginning because you are just getting to know the person,” Texas-based psychotherapist Richard E. “Therefore, the awkwardness comes from the desire to be accepted by a person of interest.” It can be awkward — and tiring.