How do I approach my partner about an issue?

How To Bring Up An Issue In A RelationshipExplain How It Makes You Feel. itsnotheritsme. Take A Collaborative Approach. Wait Till Your Emotions Level. Take Out Any Negatively-Charged Words. Explain You Want To Have A Discussion, Not An Argument. Pull A We Need To Talk Explain What The Real Issue Is. Use I Not YouMore items •26 Sep 2016

When should you talk about problems in a relationship?

Its best to wait until youve both had plenty of time to cool off. Its easy to go off track when talking about a problem in your relationship, but bringing up other arguments or issues from the past will not help you reach a positive resolution.