How do I know if I really want to be with someone?

Relationship experts say these are the 9 signs the person youre dating is right for you — and some are surprisingly simpleThey pass the bar test They dont hold you back. They dont want to change you. They fit into your life. They listen to you. Theyre happy when youre happy. They comfort you when youre sad.More items •May 30, 2018

How long does it take to know if you want to be with someone?

Men take an average of 88 days (about three months) to tell their partner they love them, whereas women take an average of 134 days (four and a half months), according to a 2013 survey conducted by YouGov and eHarmony.