Talk to other people who have had messy breakups and have gotten back together. Consider visiting a therapist to get a professional point of view on the matter. And talk to your mutual friends to get their take on what went wrong and what they think you can do to make things right.

Is it possible to get back together after a break up?

Getting together after a breakup is a very common thing: A study found that almost 50% of couples admitted to reuniting with their partner after they had broken things off. But even though its done pretty frequently, rebuilding a relationship after a breakup is no easy feat.

How long after a breakup do people get back?

Studies suggest that people start to feel better around three months post-breakup. One study found it takes three months and 11 days before the average American feels ready to date again after a major breakup.